Hello Tricia
Well you have to tell us how you're doing too

But I agree with you that we need to be honest with each other if it's going to be helpful. There must be thousands of others out there who are feeling just as isolated and frustrated and probably (let's face it) also feeling dirty and smelly....There's no rationalisation about this...even if one knows that one is keeping clean, using odour absorbing pads etc. etc...I bet I'm not the only one who fears it's obvious to other people. Let's hope they find this website soon - better for all of us.
I get so annoyed that my life is ruled by my bladder
However, as I hinted in a post I made earlier on the Bladder related topic, obsessing can work both ways and I am trying (so hard) to relax and ignore small leakages while I concentrate on managing the big ones.
Pretty miserable position though.